When you're young, you get people wanting to help you kick start,
but they won't be able to push you further; you needed the determination.
But when you're older, you'll realised you couldn't get anyone to help you when you have nothing to work with,
but there will be many that would be glad to help you towards the end; all you need is initiative.
You will come to realise the norm in these different stages of life: people that are tasked to help couldn't; people that could doesn't have the luxury of time.